The one thing that is absolutely vital to overcoming is DESIRE. You must want to, badly.
POSITIVE SELF TALK
We must begin to talk to ourselves about ourselves in a more positive way. Instead of defining ourselves negatively we must define ourselves positively.
Tell yourself that...
* I am equal in dignity to anyone else.
* I have a lot to offer other people.
* People are not my enemies.
* I am intelligent and nice to be with.
* I can do anything I put my mind to.
* I am loveable and capable just the way I am right now.
day stop and say something like, " Everyday, in every way, I am becoming more comfortable speaking with people."
REMEMBER... that every person is a unique gift. There is no other person like you on the planet. There has never been another like you. There will never be another like you. So treat yourself like the rare, unique, precious gift that you are.
This is an excerpt from Mike's Special Report " How to OvercomeShyness and Connect with People"
ONLY $6.00 http://www.motivationalplus.com/Shynesssalespage.html
Mike Moore is an international speaker and writer on human potential, motivation and humour. You can subscribe to his FREELifeline newsletter at http://motivationalplus.com/cgi/a/t.cgi?lifeline
Here are some more shyness articles...
Combatting Shyness Hollywood Style By Peter If you have seen shows on the Animal Planet or the National Geographic channel showing the behavior of a doe or other animals when they veer away from human contact, this is how shyness is defined in Read more...
Shyness In Children By Arthor Pens What is shyness?Liz wanted to enter the mess hall. All the other kids were already seated in groups, munching their lunch, chatting happily. Liz was afraid that people would look at her, so Read more...
Combatting Shyness Hollywood Style By Peter If you have seen shows on the Animal Planet or the National Geographic channel showing the behavior of a doe or other animals when they veer away from human contact, this is how shyness is defined in Read more...
